Thursday, August 9, 2012

We're Adopting Again!!

Well, it's been a very long time since our last post and so much has happened. Bela is over 4 years old and will be turning 5 soon  - my how she has grown! She is actually asking for another brother or sister so we figured it was perfect it was that we also found out a few weeks ago that we have been matched to an orphanage in Mumbai by the Indian government.

But, first things first. Bela is now in pre-school and while potty training was incredibly challenging for me, we are well past then and are night trained as well. Bela is done with speech - graduating out of speech class 1 year after we started. She is incredibly likable and everyone knows her at her school - she just stands out. She is very active and is excelling in gymnastic - turns out she is very athletic, strong and lacks a whole lot of fear when it comes to climbing on things! She is going to school full time now and absolutely loves it. She has totally adjusted well although she definitely gets attached very easily which is great. She doesn't like it when she has substitute teachers or coaches and takes her a class or two before she gets used to someone new. So 2.5 years later, she is thriving, healthy and very happy.

Now we have been ready for our next child however India changed the process on us which was very frustrating. Just to upload the paper work to the CARA web site has been a huge pain as it's down all the time and there are only so many days per month (one Tuesday a month) that they will even accept applications. However, one day, it happened and within 2 weeks were matched to an orphanage. The Indian government now decides the place we will adopt from and they decided to ignore our require to adopt from the same orphanage Bela was from. So, we are hoping this is for the best. Good news is that we know someone who did adopt from the same place and they had a great experience with their child and her transition. So hopefully we are matched very soon with our son or daughter!

14 comments:

  1. Beautiful Post in the behalf of Bella. Hope she may have a bright career.
    CTET

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  2. Congratulations on being matched by CARA for your second adoption! Thats great news! I recently came across your blog and also noticed on this post about Bela graduating speech class. Congrats, Bela!I'd love to get some more information on that speech specific interventions from an international adoption perspective. If you don;t mind, can we touch base?
    I have a gmail account- jincy.jj

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  3. Enjoyed reading your post so very much! I look forward to hearing all about your new addition. Hugs, Michellene

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  4. I happened upon your post after searching for families who are adopting/have adopted from India. We are using Holt to adopt from India and will be starting our home study process next month. My husband is part Indian (Overseas Citizen of India) and his father is from Pune. Bela is adorable! I look forward to keeping up with your second adoption journey. All the best to you! Michelle

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    1. Congratulations Unknown on your decision to adopt! We have been thrilled with Holt and decided to use them again for our 2nd adoption. We know several families who have adopted from that agency. My advice to you is to get your paperwork done as promptly as possible - set the tone that you are serious about adopting. Then be diligent in following up with the India program. The process has changed quite a bit but my take on it is that since India is now making the match, I am sure they are applying even more rigor to the process which can only be a good thing I think. Best of luck! BTW - what part of the country are you in? I think it's important to stay in contact with other adoptive parents and families. Let me know if there is anyway I can support you.

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    2. We are in North Carolina...far away from y'all! Thank you for your advice. I've heard you can't ever be prepared with the wait, but I'm trying to go into the process with an open mind and patience. Best, Michelle

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  5. Hey Reshma,
    I just found your blog by chance and we have been thinking of adopting a child from India. We have one biological child who will soon turn 3.
    I just wanted some info about holt and that if you found a match now? How long is the whole process generally. Please email me at binduraghavan@gmail.com if you would like to share more. Thanks in advance!
    -Bindu

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  6. Hi Reshma,

    I guess my wife and I also have a similar question/s as the previous poster (Bindu). We would appreciate your thoughts on adoption from India and some reputable agencies that we could contact. pls email me if you have a moment... indianhomecooking[at]gmail..... thank you in advance. -amish

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  8. Hi Reshma,

    We are planning on adopting a child from India. Did you apply directly to CARA or an agency? It will be great if you respond back to us as we are trying to gather as much information for our process. We are in Pennsylvania. My email id is anadk2003@yahoo.com. Your response will be greatly appreciated.

    Thank you

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  9. Hi Reshma,

    We are planning on adopting a child from India. Did you apply directly to CARA or an agency? It will be great if you respond back to us as we are trying to gather as much information for our process. We are in Pennsylvania. My email id is anadk2003@yahoo.com. Your response will be greatly appreciated.

    Thank you

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